Do You REALLY Want to Know?
I have found that relationships can be one of the most challenging things to experience. I have also found that life without challenges would probably be quite boring. While building a relationship with someone, we have our requirements and two of the most important requirements for a healthy relationship in my opinion are trust and honesty. Without those two components, you damn near need to be single. I know…I know…there are more things that contributes to a healthy relationship, but besides money… trust and honesty will end a relationship or cause some major issues/challenges along the way.
If your significant other makes the decision to be dishonest or unfaithful in the relationship, do you really want to know what they have done? I know of individuals who have made it VERY clear that they do not want to know if their significant other is doing something he/she shouldn’t be doing. I have learned to agree to disagree with that because I want to know! Now, I am not saying that I want to know which leg was up, how many strokes were made or what not. I am not even saying that I want to know so that I can kick both of their asses! I would want to know what I am dealing with and to make the choice to deal with it or not. Don’t take my choice from me! Some people are okay and have developed “open relationships”, but I ain’t talking about them right now! I would want to know because it truly shows me what type of value is placed into the relationship.
My curiosity comes in for those who want to know every detail of the experience. What was done, how it was done, what was the reaction from the person, how long did it take, was it better? What does one do with that information? I need some understanding! What would be your reason for not wanting to know? What’s your reason for wanting to know?
Please comment…this should be interesting!